Why is it that when I am sad or upset no one seems to care about making me feel better? I'll tell you why because people want the easy road, and if you're having a bad day no one wants to help you through your problems and that to me is rude. Sometimes I want those people in my life to just leave me alone. I love my friends but they are rude sometimes. They don't always want to hear about my problems. However, if you're a person that is upset about the same thing for a long time then you have no right to be mad at your friends if they tried to help you already but you didn't help yourself after that.